The Real Reason You Haven’t Booked Your Boudoir Session Yet

image by Elle Photography Denver CO

I hear it all the time:
"I’d love to do a boudoir session, but I just can’t afford it right now."

At first glance, it sounds like the most logical reason in the world. Life is expensive. We’ve got bills, kids, groceries that somehow cost more every week… so of course, spending money on something “just for you” can feel like a luxury that’s easy to push to the back burner.

But here’s what I’ve learned after photographing women here in Denver for years — it’s rarely actually about the money.

Money is the “safe” excuse.

It’s easier to say, “I can’t swing it right now,” than to admit the deeper fears that might be stopping you.

Let’s talk about those.

1. “I don’t feel ready in my body right now.”

You might be waiting for the day when you feel thinner, stronger, more toned… or when your skin looks “better” or your hair finally grows out.

Here’s the truth: the “perfect” time never comes.

Boudoir isn’t about being your “best self” on paper — it’s about capturing the real, beautiful, powerful woman you are right now.

2. “I’m scared of what people will think.”

Boudoir can feel vulnerable. Maybe you’re worried your partner, friends, or family will judge you.

But here’s the thing — this is about you. Your session can be as private as you want it to be. The only person who needs to see those photos is you (and anyone you choose to share them with).

3. “I’m not the kind of person who does something like this.”

Ah, the classic identity story. You think boudoir is only for models, brides, or women in their 20s. Nope.

I photograph women of all ages, body types, and life stages. The only requirement? A willingness to say yes to yourself.

So why does the “money” excuse come up so often?

Because it’s the easiest way to bow out without digging into those more vulnerable truths. Saying “It’s not in my budget” feels practical and socially acceptable. But when you really want something, you find a way to make it happen — whether it’s a vacation, a new phone, or a concert ticket.

Here’s what I want you to know:

If a boudoir session is something you’ve been dreaming about, don’t let “someday” keep winning. You are worth the investment. And yes, I offer interest-free payment plans to make it easier than you think.

Your Denver boudoir experience includes:

• A personal consultation to plan every detail

• Wardrobe styling guidance

• Professional hair and makeup

• A fully guided, multi-outfit photoshoot in a private studio

• A private image reveal and ordering appointment

• Custom-crafted albums and wall art, made in Italy

If you’re feeling the pull but also feeling nervous, that’s okay. Let’s hop on a quick call, talk through your hesitations, and figure out how to make this experience comfortable, empowering, and completely you.

P.S. The most common thing my Denver boudoir clients say after their session?
"I wish I had done this sooner."