What to Wear to Your Boudoir Session (and no, not all of it is Lingerie)
Your wardrobe is more than just what you wear—it's a way to express your unique personality and style during the session.
What you wear to your boudoir session can set the tone and elevate the overall vibe of your shoot. Here are some ideas to help you feel confident and empowered:
1. Lingerie Sets
A matching bra and panty set is a classic go-to. Choose styles that flatter your body type, like balconette bras or high-waisted panties.
Personally, I love sets from Thistle and Spire and Lace & Lush.
Opt for textures like lace, silk, or mesh for added allure.
2. Bodysuits
A bodysuit is universally flattering and can highlight your curves beautifully.
Look for styles with deep necklines, open backs, or sheer panels for a sultry edge.
3. Oversized Button-Up Shirt
A crisp white or textured shirt, either your own or borrowed from a partner, adds a playful and intimate touch.
4. Robes or Kimonos
Flowy robes in silk or satin can add elegance to your session, especially when layered over lingerie or as a standalone look.
5. Accessories
Consider thigh-high stockings, garters, or delicate jewelry to complement your look.
Bring a pair of heels for those dramatic leg-lengthening shots.
Some clients even bring hats or wigs to change things up.
6. Something Personal
Incorporate something meaningful, like a partner’s tie, jersey, or a favorite piece of jewelry, to make your session uniquely yours.
Some clients bring a significant others’ button-up shirt (like mentioned in this list) or suit. An oversized suit is always a cool look.
7. Go Nude or Semi-Nude
Boudoir doesn’t always mean wearing clothes. Draped fabric or going au naturel can create timeless, artistic photos.
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Pro Tips:
Comfort First: Wear pieces that make you feel amazing. Confidence is the best accessory!
Neutral Tones: Black, white, blush, and jewel tones photograph beautifully.
Avoid Tight Clothing Beforehand: Avoid items like bras or socks that leave marks on your skin before the shoot.
FAQs:
What if I don’t own lingerie?
That’s completely okay! Boudoir is about showcasing your unique beauty and personality, and you don’t have to wear traditional lingerie to achieve that. Here are some alternatives:
Everyday Items: An oversized sweater, a silky camisole, or a tank top paired with boy shorts can create a casual, yet intimate look.
Borrow or Shop Together: If you’d like to explore lingerie, I’m happy to suggest some brands or even help guide you through the shopping process.
Studio Wardrobe: Many photographers (including me!) keep a curated selection of outfits in the studio. You’re welcome to browse and borrow pieces that match your style.
Remember, it’s less about the outfit and more about how it makes you feel. Confidence is the key ingredient!
Do I have to wear revealing clothing?
Not at all! Boudoir sessions are all about your comfort and preferences. There’s no rule that says you have to bare it all—this experience is yours to define. Here are some non-revealing options:
Elegant Layers: A flowy robe, a knit sweater, or a sheer scarf can create beautiful, artistic shots while keeping things covered.
Fully Covered, Fully Confident: A bodysuit or even a fitted dress can look stunning in photos.
Implied Nudity: For a more sensual look without revealing too much, draped fabrics or strategic poses can give the illusion of nudity while keeping you completely covered.
Your comfort is my priority, and we’ll plan your session together to ensure every outfit or pose feels natural and empowering for you.
I have an extensive wardrobe guide to help you through wardrobe ideas once you’ve booked and we will talk more ideas during your consultation to ensure everything fits your vision. 🖤
